Thursday, February 10, 2011

What does it mean to suffer in silence?

I’m sitting here, it’s 3:26 on a Thursday. I woke up around 11. If it weren’t for the peanut butter I’m eating right now with a plastic spoon I wouldn’t have had anything to eat in over 24 hours. Yesterday around this time I was eating the extra sushi my friends had ordered, and before that my friend molly ordered me an egg and cheese croissant. That was yesterday’s breakfast.

A remix for hang with me, that robyn song just came on. I’m feeling very weak. I’m answering emails right now from perspective johns or hookups I might get food out of. Hold on. I have something to talk about, relevant to the song. By the way. I’m not deleting. And I’m not really rereading. The universe doesn’t make mistakes.

Ok, so a week ago I left my friend’s house. I’d never felt so lonely. I cried the entire walk home, those big kind of heaving drunk sobs. I woke up with huge bags under my eyes. Starving. With a monster hangover. Went to kelly’s because after I’d gotten home the night before, all sobbing and lonely, I’d facebook chatted him. Told him I missed him. He was my family.

So I went to kelly’s with my hangover and my puffy eyes because I said I would and I stayed for as long as I could then I came home and flowdreamed and I think that.. well I can’t recall what happened after that, but my last article We Need The Truth was somewhere in there. That was a week ago. In that time I did not see any of my friends. My phone was disconnected. Again. After the last fight I will ever have with a man who’s been in my life almost 9 months. Almost as long as my first boyfriend, Kelly. I let him buy me an iphone and put it on his plan and with that I let myself be controlled in a very meaningful way. My phone is my life source. Without it I soon discovered I could not contact the people that I needed to, literally in order to live. This is why I’ve been so hungry lately. Well that is the immediate cause, obvs it’s a chain.

So this person was abusive. Emotionally. I worry that I’m effected in ways I don’t yet realize or understand. Becoming dependent on a person I did not know well, who it turns out, was interested mostly in causing emotional pain, which I was stalwart and conscious of. Which I endured to keep my phone on. Because I wanted to keep the iphone and they wouldn’t let me switch to a new service plan without him. Well, I got him to agree to switch it, but he dropped the other shoe, only if I suck his dick and let him cum on my face, I ran out, he shut the phone off. That’s the end of that. Again. But this time finally.

I worry that I have no one to blame but myself.

It’s so hard, after a while, to tell what happens to you and what you do. It becomes all the same. All the responsibility and none.

I’ve changed a lot in the last 9 months. This is the first month I was unable to pay my rent. Coincidentally my mom asked me a couple weeks ago if maybe I’d like to come home, get a job there, put my stuff here in storage. I said no thanks, but I’ll come for a visit. Then yesterday, with rent two days late, I told my very scary landlady roommate that there were some family problems and my mom had asked me to come home and I decided that this would be the best month to do it so could I please apply the 300$ deposit I’d made when I moved in for these next two weeks while I move my stuff into storage.

I’m sorry I’m so hungry.

She said ok. And my fate was settled. I went to kelly’s late that night. Saw the installation for wolfpack. A huge gay event. There was even a man as a wolf in a den, he stayed there as wolf overnight and will emerge during the party tonight which I will also be going to. I helped Kelly set up by scraping stickers off the floor, sweeping, and buying beer which I drank and also spent four of my last five emergency dollars on. I might need to take the subway one way.

When I was scraping off stickers that read Cambodia I told him, well it spilled out at the first opportune moment, and quite casually that I had talked to my landlady and I would be moving back home. I think I told him when. He left the room for a long time and I finished all but two of the stickered geography installations. I think Australia and New Zealand might have been left. We went about the rest of our business as usual after that.

I played music. He told me what to do. Was stern. I did it. At one point I came into the space to ask, alberto the wolf if he wanted anything. I was as earnest and respectful as I could be, he didn’t speak, but was wearing a very subtle and expressive smile. I moved close to the den and we nuzzled, then we kissed, then we nuzzled and kissed some more. When I thought I heard someone coming I stepped away and pretended to be looking for something. No one came.

I walked into the backroom. Kelly shortly told me it was time to go. I left shortly. I said goodbye to alberto the wolf who was now laying on the floor. He did not see me. He did not respond.

On the way back home I did that crying thing I was talking about having done last week. Same exact thing. This morning there were the same exact bags.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

WE NEED THE TRUTH

I’m establishing a form: the youtube channel. I’m a performance artist and an actor. I also write, sing, play guitar, edit/record videos, and produce tracks on garageband. I’m also producing a tumblr. This will probably go on both my tumblr and my blog and perhaps my facebook. If I think it’s good enough, unrevealing enough, and relevant enough.

I’m laying flat on my stomach on my bed. I haven’t left my room for more than a couple hours a day this week. I have been hungry since Friday I’ve had six to eight meals. Today is Wednesday. Last night I was super hungry, but just about an hour ago I exploited a dom/sub fetish relationship for some food. I picked up a burger, sandwich and beer from Lodge, which is a restaurant that is currently giving away free books.

I got one called Confronting Capitalism. Did you know, that this has been a major issue and concern for some time now? I opened up to an interview with Noam Chomsky because it was titled ‘art’ in the table of contents. He reminded me of the protest at the WTO ministerial meeting in Seattle that I’m almost too young to remember, but not quite.

Here’s a bit of what I read..

at the start of the nineteenth century, the ration of real incomes per head between the world’s richest and poorest countries was three to one. By 1900, it was ten to one. By the year 2000 it had risen to sixty to one.

then Noam says

And that is extremely misleading. It vastly underestimates what’s going on. The real and striking difference is not the difference among countries but the difference within the global population, which is a different measure. That’s risen very sharply, which means that within countries the divisions have sharply risen..

So then I got super angry, and convicted and I went right to my tumblr account. What are we going to do about this you guys?

The richest 1% of adults owned 40% of the world’s total assets in the year 2000. The richest 10% of adults accounted for 85% of total assets. The bottom half of the world adult population owned 1% of global wealth - World Institute for Development Economics Research, The World Distribution of Household Wealth, 2006

And it has only gotten worse.

Well I thought, this is all very convenient, the poor person picking up on economic inequality. And what of it? I’m only suffering income inequality in America; I tip the scales in the other direction when you consider global inequality.

Almost half the world — over three billion people — live on less than $2.50 a day - World Bank Development Indicators 2008

So you know what just came on my iTunes. I swear to God, and we can have the conversation about whether Microsoft is evil later, it was my song Working. In it I sing about how I renounce working. I no longer wish to bear the burden of employment. I choose to make art.

What a spoiled shit.

How on earth can someone deny the opportunities of employment that the united states has to offer? How on earth? Where the poorest 40 percent account for 5 percent of global income and the richest 20 percent account for three-quarters of world income [World Bank Development Indicators 2008]

Well I’m lucky to be an American. Luck is relative. Last night I was flowdreaming about helping all the people of world, which is to say all the disempowered, but I don’t think that needs clarifying. I would like to add though that I just took a hit of my bong and watched a video I made for youtube titled THE RALLY TO RESTORE SANITY AND/OR FEAR (we made it!!!!!). Also, I just finished my third beer. I don’t mean to be disrespectful. The point is to be honest.

We need the truth. I can provide truth in many different ways. It’s the process of denial that is harmful. Of denying the truth in so many way. It’s got to be a problem. Now I’m not sure what I’m supposed to be doing so I’m just typing it as it comes out, like a stream of conscious but with distractions. Like life. The universe. Youtube.

I’m writing a screenplay with my good friend Dr. Kelly. He’s a stud. But he’s straight so back off. You might remember him from my videos Pretty Boy or My First Project. He also created the track Williamsburg Rooftops. He’s a talent. Watch out America. You’re gonna be blown over by this guys talent.

But enough about him. Our screenplay is about the universe. How this has all already happened before, and how drugs are actually not immoral, but a rational option for many people, and how these experiences can sometimes awaken parts of our consciousness, changing the course of our lives. Well it’s inevitable, whatever happens.

There’s a loud banging happening in the next room. I live with crazy people. Which reminds me, I wanted to talk about being crazy. It happens when your perceptions don’t match up with reality. But sometimes the truth and reality don’t match up. So there is now a difference between reality, truth, and sanity. This is not a flippant observation.

I feel, something like duty, although I believe in freedom above all things. I feel bound to champion the truth. Do you know what just came on my itunes, I swear to god, “I Know the Truth” from Aida. This is too much, don’t even get me started about coincidences.. well, I guess. Coincidences are the spice of life. They are not random, they are proof of a subconscious experience. Jung wrote a whole book about it. And others have as well. And though I can’t make a thorough argument right now, I firmly believe coincidences are the spice of life. The seasoning that is the detail that is the missing ingredient connecting us to the universe. Follow coincidences. They are magic.

The subconscious, or pre-conscious, is all powerful. Language and its ugly step child ego or “identity”. Oh! That reminds me! I also got Homosexuality in Greece and Rome: Sourcebook of Basic Documents for free when I picked up this food. So you’re still with me, thanks so much. I hope when I reread this it makes sense and that I’m not wasting your time.

Anyway, The Subconcious is the source of Truth. It exists pre morality, social convention, habit; it is ultimate freedom and can be accessed in degrees or sometimes subsume you, almost like when you dream. It is magic too, and coincidences are messages it receives from the external world. So are daydreams. You would know this if you ever flowdreamed. Try it.

Also, everyone should take an introductory acting lesson. Not for commercial purposes. We’re not all going to be reading copy. But in order that we may have the experience, just once, of completely demolishing and then rebuilding the foundation of your “identity”. We can do this other ways, but surely this way is effective and thorough. It goes to the very subconscious. I’ll tell you how my training went.

My teacher was a master. As in the old sense of the word, of which there are very few left. She was a guru. An absolutely individuated, experienced, and knowledgeable teacher. So I got in a lot of trouble the first semester cause I didn’t wanna do it, and I was scared, and I had invested so much already into my identity as an actor that I couldn’t bear to stand to find out that I couldn’t do it. You see, I was insecure that I wasn’t or wouldn’t be as good as I thought I was. I thought I was an artist. And I thought acting was my destiny.

We could substitute the word think for believe. Or even at some point know.

However, I haven’t become anything but less certain as I’ve grown older. After that rough period I brought something very personal into class, I convinced myself (for the sake of my training and ultimately art) that I had contracted HIV and I was going to die of it. I do not intend to claim that my experience in this imaginary circumstance can parallel that of actual HIV patients. There is a way to convince the brain of certain things that aren’t true in reality per se. The subsequent experience however, of this daydream, sustained at the teacher’s pleasure, seems very real. And so we learn.

You can have an experience, in all truth and reality, under imaginary circumstances. For if it is real in your mind, it is real in your body, and then it is really happening. You can convince yourself of something that is not true and believe it. This specific and intentional manipulation of consciousness results in character. By releasing the subconscious so freely, and surrounded by ‘the other’, by having a deeply private or primal emotional experience we can understand certain things about relationships, truth, performance, focus, reality, and the subconscious.

Truths that were imbedded in our dna before we could even speak begin to be revealed. The face to face is the initial differentiation. It is the point of ethics. All further differentiation, and choices arise from the face to face. Language, identity, belief.

So in this process, along with the physical work we did which was designed to completely re-introduce us to our bodies, where nothing was taken for granted, everything was a habit, and every day was a discovery of vast potential and unimagined opportunity, we learned to become actors because we learned how to release the subconscious. The experience, one day after another, of not only having a NEW experience, but of realizing it was a possibility that we had heretofore cut ourselves off from, was so bittersweet. We cried a lot, rolled around on the floor a lot, wailed a lot, played a lot.

We are socialized to inhabit our bodies the way we do. It is subtle and not entirely intentional. My teacher, Victoria Hart, summed up the goal for us with the phrase ‘sense of truth’. Language has overlap, ideas are inherited. Truth is in constant flux, the subconscious (like the universe) cannot be entirely apprehended. Time cannot be fully comprehended. It is a sense that we are after of what’s true. What exists preverbally, even pre consciously, before we assume any role, opinion, or even point of view. It is the ultimate resistance to authority, definition, form, linear logic, rationalism, and fraility. The truth is ultimate power.

There is a wealth of information, a lexus of options and freedoms, that many people live unaware of. We must bring this information forward. Freedom is the goal. This is a metaphor for the global catastrophe of inequality that is happening. Now more than ever. “The top 1% of the U.S. population is getting one-fourth of the national income and nearly half of the national wealth, twice as much as two decades ago” globalissues.org

It is not a coincidence that intuition, queerness, empathy have been suppressed in our industrialized culture. That the performer’s body has been absent in art until the 1960s. That women are victimized in the artistic canon, in employment, and in society. It is not a coincidence that black people don’t receive the same level of education as their counterparts, and are imprisoned more frequently. It is not a coincidence that policies have been enacted on a federal, local and global level that promote and support corporations not the individual. Preference is given to the rich. In terms of education, health care, access to information, time, resources, travel, freedom. There is a starting point inequality that belies any promise of full equality.

This is the result of a now disgustingly powerful minority that can intentionally control the discourse of culture and economy on a massive level. These outcomes are not the law of some natural force, noam says, “they are the results of very specific decisions, institutional arrangements, and plans which can be expected to have these effects. And they have these effects.”

We are seeing the results a mechanism of power, of an intellectually and ethically lazy conservatism that protects it’s own and disenfranchises ‘the other’.

The scales are tipped so dramatically in favor of the powerful that we will not see full equality before we die. It’s that battle. The one where you’ve already lost, it is determinedly futile, and all that counts is in the attempt. As with making art, what matters is that you try. There is beauty and truth in that. It seems the most important thing for me to do. Keep trying.

As an artist, who is that because there is nothing else I am happy doing, I must be able to make the work I want. From my audience, I seek to gain trust in my intention. Words cannot express the full thrust of this. I’ve moved from my bed to a table.. well it’s really a nightstand. It was my grandfather’s.

Now I’m making work that perhaps seems frivolous, or narcissistic. Considering all this. I do. I’m not interested in wasting anybody’s time, especially when the time I usually get is from people who already agree with me.

I read, in one of those free books I was talking about (it was called Libra), the quote: “Happiness is not based on oneself, it does not consist of a small home, of taking and getting. Happiness is taking part in the struggle, where there is no borderline between one’s own personal world, and the world in general.” Which is an excerpt from a letter sent by Lee Harvey Oswald (who was a Libra like me!) to his brother.

What I’m getting at so well is that: the personal is the political. Libra happens during the fall equinox. Astrology is a metaphor, or a mythology, for the evolution of the personality as correlates to the time of year. I was actually born on the very day of the year when the dark and light are equal. I believe in mythology. I believe it shapes character and explains character. The reason I segued from writing about psychology to mythology earlier was because the words we’ve created to represent sections of our brain, figments of our imagination, and relationships between us, our body, and the external universe, is exactly the same project the ancient Greeks were involved in but with different words. They called their ego narcissus and spelled it all out through allegory. Which is exactly what we’re doing, though perhaps more specifically. Mythology, psychology, the narrative, pattern, figment, form, construction, expectation or language we inhabit becomes who we are and in turn our destiny. We’ve heard that quote before right? Character equals destiny. The greeks figured it out in their epic tragedies. Just because now we have much more specific stories does not mean we’ve transcended the predicament. I struggle everyday to override my socialization and meet my destiny on the path to freedom.

Maybe the whole project of language is why we’re here in the first place. Differentiation is perhaps the problem period, more specific differentiation is not going to make the problem better. It might make it worse. I dream of returning to the origin of ethics and systems, the face to face, the original stepping out and facing a crowd and doing so for what reason? What is the point of the human project? How can we see it through? I’m no longer interested in these endless differentiations. Neurotic distractions. There’s too much work to ever finish. But I at least would like to honestly say that I tried.

I don’t believe in good or bad. I believe in progress and the truth. Even though you can’t ever get to it at all, sometimes you can get at the truth with 3 words just as easily as you can with 1000. So here it is, The top one percent of Americans receive more income than the bottom 40 percent [Korten, David. When Corporations Rule the World, p. 108]

Ultimately, measures to create equality must entail a net transfer of resources from the richest 5% of the population to the majority world – the 40% of the world who currently live on less than $2 a day. [Copyright 2006, Share The World's Resources]